Choosing your tools to increase sexual arousal, improve orgasm and make sex pleasurable again.
Tips and Tools to Help Orgasm
Pre-orgasmia or Anorgasmia can be a great frustration to women. Here are some tips to overcome. Read more
Choosing the Right Vibrator for You
Vibrators are one of the fastest ways to reach orgasm. Tips on how to choose the best for you. Read more
Clitoral Pumps
Increase arousal with blood pumping to the right areas. Clitoral pumps are easy and non-invasive. Read more
Orgasm with Intercourse
The key is to keep stimulating the clitoris duing intercourse. Couple's toys keep a woman aroused clitorally with sex. Read more
Buy the Best Erotica
Erotica can get you out of your head and into your senses. From mildly sensual to hard-core bondage, you will find erotica for every sensual taste. Read more
Buy Erotic Movies
Whether it is called erotica or porn, sexually explicit films can arouse, teach and inspire. Read more
Answers from Sexperts on Female Sexual Problems
Low Sexual Desire
"My wife says she is not interested in SEX and could never have it again and be happy...OMG this sucks!" Dr. Kat answers
Difficulty with Orgasm
"I’m a 26 year old female who has never been able to have an orgasm when I wanted to. If I do orgasm it seems to happen almost by accident. I’m not currently in a relationship but I made a decision to focus on my sexuality for myself. Where do I begin? How can I become more orgasmic?" Dr. Kat answers
Female Viagra
"I hear about Viagra and other new pills and creams for women to function better in bed. Which works the best?" Dr. Klein answers
Spanish Fly: Does it work?
"My girlfriend doesn't seem to be as stimulated as she has been in the past. I've mentioned Spanish Fly as a way to get her desire up. I'm sure her problem is a temporary thing, loads of stress in her life right now. Does Spanish Fly work and is it a good idea for temporary help in this situation? "
Ann Whidden answers
Vaginismus
"I’m 19 years old and have never been able to have penetrative sex with my boyfriend. Every time I’ve tried vaginally I just lock up. It actually becomes painful to insert anything. For the same reason I’ve been unable to use tampons or get a pelvic exam. What’s wrong with me?" Dr. Kat answers
Cannot Orgasm with Intercourse
"I can't have an orgasm during intercourse. I have no idea what to do. My husband thinks I'm not attracted to him, but that's not the case." Dr. Klein answers
Only Clitoral Stimulation to Orgasm
"I have never experienced an orgasm during penetration without me doing clitoral stimulation myself." Dr. Kat answers
Lack of Lubrication
"I have performed cunnilingus twice on my girlfriend, each time for the better part of an hour. I am new at this but seem to be enjoying it. My girlfriend is 22 and tells me she is a virgin. I don't think my girlfriend is getting wet in the slightest bit. I have only had a few partners before and it has been my experience that after 5 to 10 minutes of regular foreplay the vagina is thoroughly lubricated. I am looking for a little direction." Dr. Kat answers
No Orgasm
"I have been with my gf for seven months now and I wanna know how I can give her a orgams? She keeps asking me why don't I give her one but how can I know? She won't tell me how she gets off. I hope you can help me. I really love this girl. Thanks for your help." Dr. Kat answers
Embarrassed of Large Labia
"The lips of my genitals seem really big -- they hang down way farther than anything else in that area. It's gotten to the point where I'm embarrassed to have sex with anyone, because I'm afraid they'll think I'm really weird. Is there something I can do to fix them?" Dr. Kat answers
