Fun with Fellatio

Blowjobs aren't just for men's pleasure. That's right, many women say the feeling of control fellatio gives them combined with the pleasure they're giving their partner is quite the turn-on. Read on for tips and techniques to make a blowjob an ultimately satisfying experience for all involved.

• Glans: The head of the penis
• Frenulum: The underside of the glans; ** the most sensitive part, focus most of your licks here **
• Shaft: The length of the penis
• Perineum: The area between the anus and the testicles
• Testicles: Where sperm is made and stored for ejaculation

• Position yourself comfortably
• Start by teasing his penis - kiss, breathe lightly, whisper, tickle, lick from the base to the tip like a lollipop
• Get his penis and your lips nice and wet. You can lick, spit, drool, whatever you feel comfortable doing
• Switch to sucking. Create a vacuum by pursing your lips, then using them to surround his penis
• Thrust your mouth down over his penis while you suck
• Use your saliva as a lubricant
• Stroke with your hands while sucking
• Twist your hand as you move up and down on the shaft
• Switch hands occasionally for variation. Try both at the same time, or use one hand to hold the base of his penis firmly

• Licking & nibbling the penis is quite stimulating. Use your teeth sparingly and very, very gently
• Run your tongue around the glans of the penis, then focus on the frenulum
• Flick your tongue back and forth and all around as you're sucking
• Take as much of your penis as you can in your mouth, and use your tongue to make small up and down motions on his shaft. The base of your tongue will press rhythmically against his frenulum, a sensation he will love
• Lick the bottom of the shaft while using your hand to fondle the glans, and vice versa

• There's more to the penis than meets the eye
• Take his balls gently into your mouth and suck, one at a time
• Lick from his perineum, over his balls, all the way to the tip of his penis
• Run your tongue along his perineum
• Lick his anus and see if he likes it
• Rub his balls gently as you suck the shaft

• It's your decision: Some like to take come into their mouth, some like to watch it shoot.
  Both can be very sexy.
• If you choose to take it in your mouth, you can swallow or keep a cloth or napkin nearby to spit into.
• Swallowing is sometimes easier if you have his penis in the back of your throat, and swallow everything quickly, like a shot.
• Know your partner and make good choices. Swallowing during oral sex on an HIV-infected man has been known transmit the virus.

• Take a deep breath before you take his penis into your mouth to relax your throat muscles.
• Add a little zing to the experience by introducing some vibration to the base of the penis or anal region. The Fukuoku 9000 finger vibrator slips over the finger and can be used easily with the hand while focusing on what your mouth is doing.
• Use your hand around the base of his penis to control how deep he goes into your mouth.
• Try swallowing when his penis reaches the back of your throat. It kind of tickles.
• You can start a blowjob when your partner's penis is flaccid and stimulate him to erection.
• Pubic hairs in your mouth are normal. Just stop for a minute to take them out & then keep going. Or think of using a personal shaver to trim or get rid of the hair altogether.
• Use a finger in your partner's anus to massage his prostate.
• Pop an ice cube in your mouth or a mint for extra stimulation.
• Run your hands over his inner thighs as your mouth moves on his shaft.
• Keep your teeth away from his penis, or very, very lightly rub them against him while sucking.
• Not all men come during oral sex. Don't worry if he doesn't. Just move on to the next sexy activity.