How to be Orgasmic at Every Age
Sex is new, exciting and experimental. Look for toys that push your boundaries.
Sex Toys for Different Ages
A host of pleasure-toys fit naturally within a certain time of a woman's life. Find the toy that is right for you, along with our suggestions for age-related sex.
Sex Toys in your 20s
Sex is new, exciting and experimental. Look for toys that push your boundaries. Since this is a time of discovery, explore your all of your erogenous zones.
Sex Toy suggestion:
The Vibrating Anal Probe – a beaded anal vibrator. A great way to explore anal pleasure without worry.
Lube suggestion: Maximus
New to sex? If you are, the bad news is that you are much more likely to develop a yeast or bladder infection, than if you have been doing it for a while. The good news? Look for lubes without sugars (glycerin) which can foster an infection.
Liquid Silk is made with natural ingredients and no glycerin (an ingredient know to cause yeast infections).
Porn:
Online porn is the cheapest form of sexual entertainment and, for the most part, it gets the job done.
Sex Toys in your 30s
Kids, family, and work all add up to a busy, busy life. In order to keep up with all of the tasks necessary to maintain a sane existence, something has to give. Unfortunately the thing that we give up most often is sex. Luckily, a good vibrator can be a time-saving device to reach sexual arousal and orgasm.
Sex Toys:
Virtual Bunny Vibrating Cock Ring for Couples takes the work out of sex by stimulating the clitoris to reach easy orgasms with intercourse.
We Vibe II does everything -- just like you. And it is one of the top-rated vibrators ever.
Lube:
Lube:
Pink Silicone Lube Silicone lubes last and last and last.
Sex Toys in your 40s
The forties are a wonderful time to take another look at sexuality and discover what really works for you. With less home demands there is more ME time. Fill your new-found sexual awakening with a focus on the clitoris as it is starting to need more stimulation than before to get the same job done.
Sex Toy Suggestions:
Romance Vibrator The Romance Vibrator is quiet, super strong and versatile. Use this silicone vibrator in the bath or shower, or in bed with your partner.
The Vanity is a vibrator with two vibrating ends for extreme pleasure. Use this wand for perfect g-spot massage or as a clitoral vibrator for intense orgasms.
Lube suggestions:
Liquid Silk is a sexual lubricant that lasts like no other water-based lube.
Sex Toys in your 50s
The body is changing like no other time since puberty. You need more lubricant, as natural lubrication starts to decrease in the peri-menopause. Look for lubes that are "thicker". And you may need more blood-flow to the genitals. All-purpose vibrators and clitoral pumps are the first choice.
Sex Toy suggestions:
Rabbit Habit The classic sex toy that every woman should have tucked away in her toy chest. If you don't already have it, the Rabbit Habit rotates and vibrates against the all-mighty clitoris.
Advanced Clitoral Pump wakes up a sleeping clitoris. A jump-start to a woman's body.
Lube suggestions:
Maximus Lube We like this lube for its thicker texture. Still a water-based lube it offers protection to a waning vaginal wall.
Sex Toys in your 60s+(or if post-menopausal)
Use it or lose it! As the body ages the vagina loses elasticity and thickness, making sex less and less comfortable. But this ONLY happens if the vagina is left alone and not 'worked-out' with intercourse or masturbation. The vagina needs to be stretched and prodded to stay thick and luscious. Studies have found that if a woman regularly uses a dildo or penis in her vagina the vaginal wall will stay more full and plump decreasing sexual discomfort.
Sex Toy suggestion
Oasis Vibrating Wand is a slim dildo that's specially made for menopausal women.
Lube suggestions:
Liquid Silk or Maximus